Simplifying divorce or dissolution of a civil partnership: Share a divorce lawyer

Divorce or dissolution can be one of the most challenging and emotional experiences in life. At Moore Barlow, we understand the complexities and emotional strain that come with ending a marriage or civil partnership. We are committed to making the process as smooth, efficient, and amicable as possible.

One innovative approach that we offer is the option for couples to “share a divorce lawyer.” This service allows both parties to use the same legal representation, fostering a cooperative environment and potentially reducing the time, stress, and costs associated with traditional divorce or dissolution proceedings.

Can a couple use the same divorce lawyer?

Yes, a couple can use the same divorce or dissolution lawyer if they are amicable and agree to work collaboratively. The lawyer acts as a neutral facilitator, helping them reach a fair agreement while reducing costs and conflict.

What does it mean to share a divorce or dissolution lawyer?

Sharing a divorce or dissolution lawyer means that both parties in a divorce or dissolution agree to use the same legal professional to facilitate their separation. This approach is most suitable for amicable divorces or dissolutions where both parties are willing to work collaboratively to reach a fair agreement. By sharing a divorce or dissolution lawyer, couples can benefit from a streamlined process, with one legal expert guiding them through the necessary steps, mediating discussions, and helping them reach mutually agreeable solutions.

Benefits of sharing a divorce lawyer

Cost-effective

Divorce or dissolution can be expensive, with each party typically hiring their own lawyer and accruing significant legal fees. Sharing a divorce or dissolution lawyer can significantly reduce these costs. By using one lawyer, couples can halve the legal expenses, making divorce more affordable and less financially burdensome.

Efficient process

Using a shared lawyer can expedite the divorce or dissolution process together with the division of the finances. With only one legal professional involved, communication is more straightforward, and scheduling conflicts are minimised. This streamlined approach can lead to quicker resolutions, allowing both parties to move forward with their lives sooner.

Reduced conflict

A shared lawyer works as a neutral mediator, focusing on fair and equitable solutions rather than adversarial tactics. This collaborative approach can reduce tension and conflict, fostering a more amicable atmosphere and helping both parties reach a consensus without the need for contentious courtroom battles.

Consistent advice

When each party has separate legal representation, differing legal advice can lead to confusion and conflict. A shared lawyer provides consistent advice to both parties, ensuring that everyone is on the same page and understands the implications of the decisions being made.

Tailored solutions

A shared lawyer is committed to finding solutions that work for both parties. By understanding the needs and concerns of both individuals, the lawyer can craft agreements that are tailored to the specific circumstances of the couple, ensuring a fair and balanced outcome.

How it works

Initial consultation

The process begins with an initial consultation where both parties meet individually with the lawyer to discuss their situation and determine if sharing a divorce or dissolution lawyer is appropriate for them. During this meeting, the lawyer will explain the process, outline the benefits and limitations, and answer any questions the couple may have. With the meeting, each person’s commitment statement is discussed too.

Agreement to proceed

If both parties agree to proceed with sharing a lawyer,  And the lawyer agrees the process is suitable, then a joint meeting is arranged. At this meeting, the couple will review their commitment statements, align their aims and create and agenda to work through; which then forms the basis of the sessions.

Discussion and negotiation

The shared lawyer will facilitate discussions between the parties, helping them identify and negotiate key issues such as asset division, child arrangements, spousal support, and other important matters. The lawyer’s role is to facilitate these discussions, ensuring that both parties have a voice and that their concerns are addressed.

Drafting the agreement

Once the parties have reached a consensus on all key issues, the lawyer will draft a financial consent order which records in legal language the agreement reached. This document outlines the terms of the divorce and financial division, including children arrangements, and any support obligations. Both parties will review the agreement to ensure it accurately reflects their understanding.

Submission to Court

Once both parties are satisfied with the agreement, the lawyer will file the necessary paperwork with the court to finalise the divorce and division of the finances. A judge will then review the documentation.

Is sharing a divorce or dissolution lawyer right for you?

Sharing a divorce or dissolution lawyer is not suitable for every situation. It works best when both parties are amicable, willing to cooperate, and committed to reaching a fair agreement. Here are some scenarios where sharing a divorce or dissolution lawyer might be appropriate:

Amicable separation

If both parties have mutually agreed to separate and are on good terms, sharing a lawyer can simplify the process and reduce costs.

Clear communication

Couples who can communicate openly and honestly about their needs and concerns are more likely to benefit from a shared lawyer.

No significant power imbalances

Sharing a lawyer is most effective when there are no significant power imbalances between the parties, ensuring that both individuals can negotiate on equal footing.

Common goals

When both parties share common goals, such as prioritising the well-being of their children or maintaining a cordial relationship post-divorce or separation, a shared lawyer can help them achieve these objectives more efficiently.

Why choose Moore Barlow?

At Moore Barlow, we are committed to providing compassionate, expert legal services tailored to the unique needs of each client. Our team of experienced family law solicitors understands the emotional and financial challenges of divorce or separation, and we are dedicated to helping you navigate this difficult time with dignity and respect. Here’s why you should consider Moore Barlow for your shared divorce or dissolution lawyer needs:

Expertise and experience

Our family law solicitors have extensive experience handling all aspects of divorce or dissolution, from simple, amicable separations to complex, contentious cases. We have the expertise to guide you through the process and ensure that your interests are protected.

Client-centred approach

We prioritise your needs and concerns, offering personalised advice and support throughout the divorce or dissolution process. Our goal is to help you achieve a fair and satisfactory outcome while minimising stress and conflict.

Neutral and fair

As shared divorce or dissolution lawyers, we are committed to acting as neutral facilitators, ensuring that both parties are heard and that their interests are considered. We strive to create balanced agreements that are fair to both parties.

Transparent fees

We offer clear and transparent fee structures, ensuring that you understand the costs involved from the outset. Sharing a lawyer can significantly reduce your legal expenses, making the process more affordable.

Get started today

If you and your partner are considering divorce or dissolution and are interested in exploring the option of sharing a divorce lawyer, we invite you to contact Moore Barlow for a consultation. Our experienced family law solicitors will help you understand your options and determine if this approach is right for you. We are here to support you every step of the way, providing expert guidance and compassionate service to help you move forward with confidence.

Contact us today to learn more about how sharing a divorce or dissolution lawyer can simplify your divorce or dissolution and help you achieve a fair and amicable resolution.