Mediation offers a valuable alternative to court and allows families to reach an agreement in a more relaxed setting. There are different types of mediation and sometimes it is hard to decide which option is best for you and your family. This article explores when each method is appropriate to help you decide what will work best for you:
Traditional Mediation
What is it?
Traditional mediation is a process of conflict resolution. The mediator will facilitate discussions and help the parties communicate so that they can try to reach a mutual solution.
When is traditional mediation appropriate?
This method is used to try to resolve disputes outside of the court process. It is worth noting that traditional mediation can be conducted remotely.
Advantages traditional mediation
- Helps to keep things amicable
- Helps save extensive costs that would be required for court
Hybrid Mediation
What is it?
Hybrid mediation includes solicitors and/or other experts in the discussions. The mediator will still facilitate discussions, but experts such as solicitors, financial advisers or independent social workers can also be included in discussions.
When is hybrid mediation appropriate?
This approach is often used in cases of high conflict to keep discussions on track and to try and ensure mediation is as productive as possible. It is also helpful in more complex cases as solicitors can provide advice on the spot to aid discussions and explore potential settlement options and proposals..
Advantages of hybrid mediation
- The benefit of having advice on the day from your solicitor
- The process is often quicker as it doesn’t require lengthy correspondence between solicitors, which can be discussed on the day.
- It can help to reduce conflict
- This process can also be conducted remotely.
Shuttle Mediation
What is it?
This is when the mediator moves between separate rooms (whether it be physical or virtual) to facilitate discussions. This means that the parties do not have to communicate directly.
When is shuttle mediation appropriate?
Shuttle mediation is often used when emotions are high or when direct communication between the parties would be counterproductive. It is also used when one of the parties would feel unsafe being in the same room as the other.
Advantages of shuttle mediation
- Facilitates a cooperative and respectful atmosphere
- Ensures focus on the relevant issues rather than personal conflicts
- Ensure both parties feel comfortable in their own space.
Child-inclusive Mediation
What is it?
This process takes any children’s views into consideration. While the children are not directly involved in the negotiations, their feelings and preferences are discussed to help parents make decisions that are in the best interest of the child.
When is child-inclusive mediation appropriate?
It is a useful process for when parents feel that it is important for their children to have a say in decisions. It is worth noting that this type of mediation is not appropriate for children under the age of 10.
Advantages of child-inclusive mediation
- It gives children a voice and a chance to share any worries of concerns they may have
- It can provide insight for the parents into what their children want
- It can often aid discussions and points of conflict to know the view of the children
How Moore Barlow can help
Moore Barlow has an expert team of family solicitors who are able to help you and your family. We have a number of mediators who can assist. If you have already selected a mediator, you can use Moore Barlow as your lawyers to give you advice throughout the process and after.
If you would like to speak with one of our family mediation solicitors about your options, please do contact us for further information.